Selasa, 24 Juli 2012

TAQWA

Sungguh surga menjanjikan
Di jalan yang mendaki penuh duri
Dan neraka menawarkan
Harumnya wangi dunia
Bagai kuntum bunga
Harusku bagaimana tuk memilih
agar hidupku berarti
Inginku, slalu dalam dekapan-Mu
Rabbi.........

Reff:
Bila taqwa menjawab, semua ku tak henti mencoba
Jatuh bangkit aku kembali, tiada lelah hati ini
walau dunia indah tercipta ku takkan terpedaya
karna janji-Mu tiada dua trus bertaqwa

~Haris Isa~

Lagu ini seolah membisikan pada hati kita bahwa Taqwa adalah jawaban untuk semua masalah di dunia ini. Bahwa dengan kedekatan kepada Sang Pencipta-lah hati kita akan menjadi tenang - bahkan dengan berbagai masalah yang datang - apapun itu. Bahwa orang dalam lagu ini seakan berjuang keras untuk mendapat gelar taqwa, meraih Cinta Tuhan-nya ("Jatuh bangkit aku kembali, tiada lelah hati ini"). Lagu ini mengingatkan kita semua untuk tetap 'BERDIRI' dan 'BERJALAN' tanpa henti - through a long road because The Greatest, GOD, put the most beautiful thing in the end of the road, namely HEAVEN.

To reach the end of the road you don't need to run all the time. You can walk, go slowly, even do run. But do not try to stop. When life seems so hard and your feet feels so tired, just lowering your head, praying and going slower. Yeah, Never stop, because the Heaven is yours, for those who believe in Allah more than anything in this worldly life. Pray much, keep moving and be sure that Allah is always be with you all the time - In every breath, in every single blink of eyes, in every single step of yours.
Bismillah.



Kamis, 31 Mei 2012

Peluk

ingin bertemu
ingin memelukmu
mencium keningmu
pipimu dan membelai rambutmu
mengambilkan air minum untukmu
mendengar lagi omelanmu
membaca surat Yaasin bersama
ingin menggenggam tanganmu
seperti pernah dirimu mencari tanganku dalam lipatan selimut saat aku hampir terlelap
dan selalu kau mengataknnya,
Jangan  pernah tinggalkan mama
pulang kerja cepet2
mau berangkat kerja jam berapa?
pulangnya jam berapa?
kapan wisuda?
jangan lupa makan
ayo tahajud
lagi sakit ya?
kenapa ga jawab pertanyaan mama?
dasar aku anak bodoh

sekarang,
mama disana sama siapa?
ada temen ga?
butuh pelukan-kah?
ga ada yang buat mama nangis kan disana?
sakit ga disana?
kangen ga sama aku?
kok ga jawab?
lagi, dasar aku anak bodoh

Rabu, 30 Mei 2012

Menjagamu

Sekarang aku punya cincin baru
Cincin almarhumah mama
Bukan cincin asli
Akan selalu kupakai
Meski bukan cincin asli
Ya, bukan asli
Dan aku menyesal kenapa tidak asli
Dan kenapa aku dulu tidak membelikannya cincin asli
Hanya sekedar untuk membuatnya tersenyum dan bahagia
Cincin yang mungkin terlihat biasa ini
Akan terus menempel di kelingking
Dan setiap aku menatapnya, menyentuhnya
Aku tahu bahwa aku selalu dekat dengannya
Dan kan kukirimkan untaian doa cinta untuknya
Dan meyakinkannya, aku selalu ada untuknya, disini, mendoakannya
Ma, baik-baik ya disana
Aku tahu Allah akan menjaga dirimu disana
Dan mama akan selalu baik-baik saja
Dan untuk kesekian kalinya
Aku sentuh Kelingking ini dan ingin ku katakan bahwa,
Aku kan selalu ada untukmu, disini, mendoakanmu

You know I love you so, and
I'm never gonna leave your side
Yes, Never

- Windari

Back Home

"Emangnya Eza pikir, tante mau nerima eza kalo eza terus-trusan kayak gini? ga akan. kinder aja ga mau nerima eza, apalagi tante."
Itulah hal yang kukatakan padanya, saat ia kabur dari asrama karena sebuah kenakalan.
Dia terdiam dan tiba-tiba seperti kehilangan nafsu makannya
Lalu dia menyusut sesuatu dari matanya. Dia menangis. Iyakah?
Padahal setelah beratus kata2 keras yang dilontarkan kakakku tidak juga meluluhkannya.

Aku tak kuasa lagi menahannya. aku juga mau menangis. Asal dirimu tahu, Cinta,
Saat aku mengatakan hal itu, disaat yang sama aku mengingkarinya dan mengatakan hal yang sebaliknya.
Kapanpun kamu merasa terbuang, kamu boleh kembali ke rumah ini, setiap saat. kapanpun

Tapi sayangnya kamu terlanjur nakal. Sangat nakal bahkan untuk ukuran anak kelas 1 SMP sepertimu.
Apalagi yang harus ku katakan ketika aku ingin mengungkapkan cinta dengan jalan yang berbeda
Karena ternyata cinta dengan senyum dan pelukan, terkadang tidak cukup untuk mengungkapkan sebuah kasih sayang dan perhatian

Aku selalu ada untukmu. Disini. Menjagamu dan Mendoakanmu.

-Windari

Rabu, 23 Mei 2012

HILANG

Ya Allah, Dia suka nangis kalo ditinggal sendirian.
Ya Allah,
Ringankan siksanya, hilangkan siksanya
Terangi kuburnya
Ringankan hisabnya
Tidurkan dia dalam tenang
Tenangkan hatinya
Turunkan malaikat-malaikat untuk menjaganya
Jangan biarkan dia menangis kesakitan
Jangan biarkan dia menangis kesepian
Dia akan menangis jika sendirian
Terima semua amalannya
Ampuni semua dosanya
Ambilah semua amalan hamba yang sedikit ini untuknya
Hanya untuknya
Hanya agar dia tidak menangis dan kesepian disana
Turunkan ratusan malaikat yang menemani dan menghiburnya
Masukkan dia ke dalam golongan hamba-hambamu yang sholeh
Masukkan dia ke syurgamu
Jika semuanya tidak cukup
Lagi, ambilah semua amalan hamba yang sedikit ini untuknya
Jangan biarkan dia menangis disana, ya Allah
Jangan biarkan dia menangis

O my Lord, just let me know what i could do to make her happy there

Selasa, 08 Mei 2012

Ketidakteraturan yang indah

Terkadang keteraturan itu membosankan dan terkadang ketidak teraturan itu menyemangkan dan meledak-ledak bagai kejutan. Mungkin sebuah rutinitas akan terasa membosankan, mungkin. Tapi tidak juga. Ya, tergantung dari sudut mana kita melihatnya. Mengapa? Ya, dengan mensyukuri apapun - syukur dalam setiap sejuk udara pagi hari yang kau tarik dan hembuskan, dalam setiap tegap langkah kakimu yang penuh semangat, dalam setiap senyum orang yang kau temui di jalan, dalam setiap kedipan mata penuh rasa syukur pada Tuhanmu.

Dan semuanya - dalam rutinitas itu - terkadang hadir ledakan-ledakan kecil mengejutkan yang dibingkiskan Tuhan untuk kita dan memberikan gradasi yang lebih meriah dalam hari yang kita jalani.

Ini hanya sebuah tulisan acak - karena pikiran saya sedang tidak beraturan, pikiran yang terkadang seperti berisi ratusan kelereng yang mendesak ingin keluar. Ya, ketidakteraturan itu indah.

Senin, 30 April 2012

Dia Yang Hebat

Hal ini kudengar langsung dari bibir Bob Sadino, paling sedikit tiga kali. Pertama dihadapan orang banyak, lalu kedua ketika berbincang denganku face to face, dan ketiga di Buku "Belajar Goblok dari Bob Sadino".

Tetapi adegan yang paling berkesan adalah ketika hal itu diucapkannya didepan para pengusaha yang sengaja diundang beliau kerumah. Dan diantara mereka hanya aku undangan yang agak nyeleneh..seorang photographer.

    "Kalau kalian berpikir bahwa Bob Sadino hebat, kalian salah besar. Tapi kalian tak sepenuhnya salah, memang seperti itulah yang diangkat oleh media tentang pengusaha nyeleneh bernama Bob Sadino". Ia terdiam sebentar sambil mengusap wajahnya. Lalu melirik kearah dapur, kemudian menatap dengan mesra seseorang. Disana terlihat Mami (istri Om Bob) tengah duduk makan. Kamipun ikut-ikutan melirik kearah yang sama.

    "Dia..dia itu..", ujar Om Bob terbata-bata dengan suara berat. Ekspresi wajah haru itu membuat kami hampir tidak berani menatap kearah beliau.

    "Dia yang hebat...", lanjut Om Bob sambil menarik nafas panjang dan berat, lalu menghembuskannya perlahan.

    "Kalau ketika saya menjadi kuli batu dulu..dia meninggalkan saya..habislah sudah.."

    Kali ini Om Bob menunduk hikmat, tangannya kini menggosok lututnya yang telah keriput.

    Seisi ruangan sunyi senyap. Yang terdengar hanyalah hembusan 12 AC yang terpasang di ruangan besar itu. Atmosfir cinta yang kuat memenuhi ruangan itu demikian kuat.

    "Without Her.. I'm just like a piece of shit on the table..a big piece of shit on the table !"

Kini tak seorangpun berani menatap Bob Sadino..kami terutama para lelaki tertunduk dalam. Kata-kata tak terduga..

dan jika aku bukan laki-laki pastilah aku sudah meneteskan air mata melihat adegan ini didepan hidungku.



***



Hiruk pikuk sexy dancer sudah mereda, meskipun pesta belumlah usai. Kini laki-laki berdarah Bali itu berdiri tegak

sambil menggenggam mikrofon ditangan kirinya. Kadek Sardjana, seorang owner perusahaan minyak dan gas terkemuka berdiri dihadapan seluruh karyawan dan partner bisnis beliau. Hampir tidak bisa bicara..

    "Saya tidak sedang mabuk..". ujarnya perlahan. Cerutu dijari kanannya tampak bergetar, jelas ia sedang berusaha menguasai dirinya sungguh-sungguh.

    "Kalian tahu siapa saya..bagi saya kalian bukan karyawan..tapi kalian adalah kawan seperjuangan", sebentar ia menatap mereka satu-persatu.

    "Kalian tahu persis baik-buruk saya, dan apa yang telah saya lakukan..saya bukan laki-laki yang sempurna", kembali Kadek menarik nafas dalam-dalam. Wajah laki-laki pemberani itu melembut.

    "Tapi saya ingin kalian tahu..bahwa tanpa dia", kini jari kanan itu membuka dan mengarah penuh hormat kearah seseorang di atas sana, Sang Istri Tercinta..

    "Tanpa dia..semua ini tidak akan seperti yang kalian lihat sekarang"

    Kini Kadek Sarjana sedikit menundukkan kepala seolah memberi hormat...

    "Honey..aku bukan laki-laki yang sempurna..but I Love You so Much..semua ini untuk mu Honey"

kini ruanganpun bertambah sunyi senyap..tidak ada satupun yang berani bicara atau bertepuk tangan.

Sementara wanita luar biasa diatas sanapun mulai menangis terharu..

dan beberapa saat kemudian pasangan luar biasa itupun tampak berdansa di dance floor dalam remang lampu, dikelilingi karyawan dan udnangan.



***



    "Mau tahu apa yang saya banggakan ?", tanya Mario Teguh kepada seluruh hadirin yang hadir distudio itu.

    "Mau tau apa itu ?", ulangnya sekali lagi.

    Kami semua terdiam. Masing-masing memendam pertanyaan besar. Apa yang dibanggakan oleh seorang Mario Teguh ? Pertanyaan yang aneh. Betapa banyak yang dapat dibanggakan oleh seorang Mario Teguh !!!

    "Karena ada yang mengangguk..maka saya akan menjawabnya juga", sambung beliau..melihat kebingungan kami. Jelas tak satupun yang betanya, namun Mario memang tak memerlukan pertanyaan..Ia hanya ingin mendelarasi sesuatu.

    "Yang paling saya banggakan adalah istri saya..", sambungnya dengan mata berkaca-kaca.

Seluruh hadirinpun bertepuk tangan.



***

    "Made..kamu lagi ngapain ??", tanya sesorang diujung telpon sana. Suara yang khas. Suara yang begitu sering kita dengar meneriakkan "Success is my rigth !! Salam Sukses...Luar BIasa !!!!"

    Yaa..Andrie Wongso. Beliau menelponku disaat yang tak kuduga sama sekali. Ketika aku sedang bercelana pendek, memotong rumput dan belum mandi. Kami ngobrol sebentar...lalu ketika obrolan kami menyerempet ke keluarga..anak..lalu istri. Iseng saya menanyakan hal ini.."Pak Andrie..menurut Bapak apa peran istri bagi seorang Andrie Wongso..?"

    Seketika itu tokoh yang telah menginspirasi begitu banyak orang itu pun terdiam. Aku tahu hubungan telpon tidak terputus. Motivator Nomer 1 itu memang sengaja diam.

    Nyaris lebih dari satu menit.

    "Pak Andrie..?", tanyaku hati-hati. Beberapa saat kemudian sebuah suara berat dari Andrie Wongsopun muncul." Iya Made..I hear you..", Andrie kembali terdiam,"Istri..yah...?".

    Aku mendengar suara senyuman dari telepon beliau.

    "Tanpa istri..Andrie Wongso pastilah bukan Motivator Nomer 1...entah jadi apa dia !!", ujarnya penuh perasaan.

    "Made, dialah satu-satunya orang yang begitu tabah mendampingi saya dimasa-masa sulit dulu.."

Minggu, 29 April 2012

When You Stood By Me

Untuk semua waktu yang kau korbankan demi menemaniku
Untuk semua kebaikan yang membuatku tersadar
Untuk semua tawa yang kau hadirkan dalam warna hidupku
Untuk semua kesalahan yang kau abaikan
Untuk semua cita yang kau buat jadi nyata
Untuk semua cinta yang mengisi ruang hatimu
Untuk semua itulah aku ingin berterima kasih
Kaulah penyangga tubuh lemahku
Sehingga aku tidak pernah terjatuh
Hanya kaulah yang mampu melihat aku
melebihi apa yang bisa dilihat orang lain

Kau adalah kekuatanku saat diriku lemah
Kau adalah nyanyianku saat aku tidak mampu berkata-kata
Kau menjadi penuntunku saat aku tidak mampu melihat
Hanya kaulah yang mampu melihat sisi terbaikku
melebihi apa yang bisa dilihat orang lain
Kaulah yang menyokong beban tubuhku saat aku tidak bisa menggapai langit
Kau memberikanku cinta dan kepercayaan tanpa membutuhkan alasan
Dan semuanya ada, karena kau mencintaiku

Kau menghadiahkan sepasang sayap dan membuatku terbang
Kusentuh langit berkat sentuhan lembut tangganmu
Kaulah yang mengembalikan semua hal yang aku anggap hilang
katamu, tidak ada bintang yang tidak bisa kugapai
Dan kau berdiri disini sehingga aku bisa melompat lebih tinggi
Ya, Saat aku memiliki cintaku,
aku tahu bahwa aku telah memiliki semuanya
Terima kasih untuk setiap detik cinta yang kau hadiahkan dalam hidupku
Meski terkadang aku tak menyadarinya,
Meski terkadang aku mengabaikannya
Dan ya, kini aku tahu
Dicintai olehmu
adalah anugrah terindah yang pernah aku miliki dalam hidup ini

Kau selalu ada untukku
Kau adalah hembusan angin lembut yang dikirim tuhan untukku
Kau adalah sinaran cahaya yang datang dalam kegelapan asa
Kau adalah inspirasi
Kau adalah kebenaran ditengah hilir mudiknya kekaburan rasa
Dan hadirmu, telah menjadikan indah duniaku

::Lagu ini dituliskan untuk mereka, para pejuang Cinta - para orang tua yang mencintai kita dengan cara yang tidak sederhana.

@@@@ The Song @@@@


Because You Love Me - Celine Dion




For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I’ll be forever thankful baby
You’re the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You’re the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn’t speak
You were my eyes when I couldn’t see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn’t reach
You gave me faith ’coz you believed
I’m everything I am
Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I’m grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don’t know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You’ve been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

I’m everything I am
Because you loved me

Mengikat Makna

"Kita bisa saja membaca banyak buku, tetapi selama kita tidak memposisikan dan mengemukakan pemikiran dan pendapat kita sendiri, boleh jadi pengertian dan pengetahuan kita bertambah tetapi pemahaman kita tidak. Demikian juga menulis, kita bisa mengutip apa saja dan siapa saja, tetapi selama kita tidak mengemukakan pemikiran dan pendapat kita sendiri, tulisan kita tidak melangkah sedikitpun di dunia gagasan kecuali hanya menjadi ikhtisar atau laporan tentang hal-hal yang kita baca atau kita ketahui "
- qoute

Ya, mungkin itulah dari arti kata mengikat makna yang sebenarnya. Jika tidak diikat, maka makna dari bacaan yang kita baca akan hilang dan tidak akan jadi sebuah lesson, sebuah pemikiran baru, sebuah wawasan baru. Hanya bacaan saja-kah? tentu saja tidak. Anda bisa Mengikat Makna dari apa saja yang anda lihat, dari yang anda dengar dan rasakan. Lihat, Renungkan, Bentuk opini sendiri, lalu tumpahkan dalam tulisan.
Selamat MENGIKAT MAKNA!

Most Common Questions asked by Non-Muslims - Part 2

11. PORK FORBIDDEN

Question:

Why is the eating of pork forbidden in Islam?
Answer:

The fact that consumption of pork is prohibited in Islam is well known. The following points explain various aspects of this prohibition:

1.  


Pork prohibited in Qur’an
 

The Qur’an prohibits the consumption of pork in no less than 4 different places. It is prohibited in 2:173, 5:3, 6:145 and 16:115.
"Forbidden to you (for food) are: dead meat, blood, the flesh of swine, and that on which hath been invoked the name of other than Allah."                                   [Al-Qur’an 5:3]
The above verses of the Holy Qur’an are sufficient to satisfy a Muslim as to why pork is forbidden.

2.  


Pork prohibited in the Bible
 
The Christian is likely to be convinced by his religious scriptures. The Bible prohibits the consumption of pork, in the book of Leviticus
"And the swine, though he divide the hoof, and be cloven footed, yet he cheweth not the cud; he is unclean to you".
"Of their flesh shall ye not eat, and their carcass shall ye not touch, they are unclean to you."
[Leviticus 11:7-8]
Pork is also prohibited in the Bible in the book of Deuteronomy
"And the swine, because it divideth the hoof, yet cheweth not the cud, it is unclean unto you. Ye shall not eat of their flesh, nor touch their dead carcass."
                                [Deuteronomy 14:8]
A similar prohibition is repeated in the Bible in the book of Isaiah chapter 65 verse 2-5.

3.  


Consumption of pork causes several diseases
 
The other non-Muslims and atheists will agree only if convinced through reason, logic and science. Eating of pork can cause no less than seventy different types of diseases. A person can have various helminthes like roundworm, pinworm, hookworm, etc. One of the most dangerous is Taenia Solium, which is in lay man’s terminology called tapeworm. It harbours in the intestine and is very long. Its ova i.e. eggs, enter the blood stream and can reach almost all the organs of the body. If it enters the brain it can cause memory loss. If it enters the heart it can cause heart attack, if it enters the eye it can cause blindness, if it enters the liver it can cause liver damage. It can damage almost all the organs of the body.
Another dangerous helminthes is Trichura Tichurasis. A common misconception about pork is that if it is cooked well, these ova die. In a research project undertaken in America, it was found that out of twenty-four people suffering from Trichura Tichurasis, twenty two had cooked the pork very well. This indicates that the ova present in the pork do not die under normal cooking temperature.

4.


Pork has fat building material

Pork has very little muscle building material and contains excess of fat. This fat gets deposited in the vessels and can cause hypertension and heart attack. It is not surprising that over 50% of Americans suffer from hypertension.

5.  

Pig is one of the filthiest animals on earth
The pig is one of the filthiest animals on earth. It lives and thrives on muck, faeces and dirt. It is the best scavenger that I know that God has produced. In the villages they don’t have modern toilets and the villagers excrete in the open air. Very often excreta is cleared by pigs.
Some may argue that in advanced countries like Australia, pigs are bred in very clean and hygienic conditions. Even in these hygienic conditions the pigs are kept together in sties. No matter how hard you try to keep them clean they are filthy by nature. They eat and enjoy their own as well as their neighbour’s excreta.

6. 

Pig is the most shameless animal
The pig is the most shameless animal on the face of the earth. It is the only animal that invites its friends to have sex with its mate. In America, most people consume pork. Many times after dance parties, they have swapping of wives; i.e. many say "you sleep with my wife and I will sleep with your wife." If you eat pigs then you behave like pigs. We Indians look upon America to be very advanced and sophisticated. Whatever they do, we follow after a few years. According to an article in Island magazine, this practice of swapping wives has become common in the affluent circles of Bombay.

12.       PROHIBITION OF ALCOHOL

Question:
Why is the consumption of alcohol prohibited in Islam?
Answer:

Alcohol has been the scourge of human society since time immemorial. It continues to cost countless human lives, and causes terrible misery to millions throughout the world. Alcohol is the root cause of several problems facing society. The statistics of soaring crime rates, increasing instances of mental illnesses and millions of broken homes throughout the world bear mute testimony to the destructive power of alcohol.

1.  

Prohibition of alcohol in the Qur’an

The Glorious Qur’an prohibits the consumption of alcohol in the following verse:
"O ye who believe!
Intoxicants and Gambling,
(Dedication of) stones,
And (divination by) arrows,
Are an Abomination –
Of Satan’s handiwork;
Eschew such (abomination),
That ye may prosper."
                                  [Al-Qur’an 5:90]

2.  

Prohibition of alcohol in the Bible

The Bible prohibits the consumption of alcohol in the following verses:
  1. "Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging; and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise."
    [Proverbs 20:1]
  2. "And be not drunk with wine."
                          [Ephesians 5:18]

3.  

Alcohol inhibits the inhibitory centre

The human beings possess an inhibitory centre in their brains. This inhibitory centre prevents the person from doing things that he considers wrong. For instance a person does not normally use abusive language while addressing his parents or elders. If he has to answer the call of nature, his inhibitory centre will prevent him from doing so in public. Therefore he uses the toilet.
When a person consumes alcohol, the inhibitory centre itself is inhibited. That is precisely the reason that an inebriated person is often found to be indulging in behaviour that is completely uncharacteristic of him. For instance the intoxicated person is found to use abusive and foul language and does not realize his mistake even if he is addressing his parents. Many even urinate in their clothes. Neither do they talk nor walk properly. They even misbehave.

4.  

Cases of adultery, rape, incest and AIDS are found more among alcoholics

According to National Crime Victimization Survey Bureau of Justice (U.S. Department of Justice) in the year 1996 alone everyday on an average 2,713 rapes took place. The statistics tell us that the majority of the rapists, were intoxicated while committing the crime. The same is true in cases of molestation.
According to statistics, 8% of Americans commit incest i.e. one in every twelve to thirteen persons in America is involved in incest. Almost all the cases of incest are due to intoxication of one or both the persons involved.
One of the major factors associated with the spread of AIDS, the most dreaded disease, is alcoholism.

5.  

Every alcoholic was initially a social drinker

Many may argue in favour of liquor by calling themselves ‘social drinkers’. They claim that they only have one or two pegs and they have self-control and so never get intoxicated. Investigations reveal that every alcoholic started as a social drinker. Not a single alcoholic or drunkard initially starts drinking with the intention of becoming an alcoholic or a drunkard. No social drinker can say that I have been having alcohol for several years and that I have so much self-control that I have never been intoxicated even a single time.

6.  

If a person is intoxicated just once and commits something shameful, it will remain with him for a lifetime.

Suppose a ‘social drinker’ loses his self-control just once. In a state of intoxication he commits rape or incest. Even if the act is later regretted, a normal human being is likely to carry the guilt throughout his life. Both the perpetrator and the victim are irreparably and irreversibly damaged.

7.  


Alcohol is prohibited in the Hadith

The Prophet of Islam Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
  1. In Sunan Ibn-I-Majah Volume 3, Book of Intoxicants, Chapter 30 Hadith No. 3371.

    "Alcohol is the mother of all evils and it is the most shameful of evils."
  2. In Sunan Ibn-I-Majah Volume 3, Book of Intoxicants, Chapter 30 Hadith No. 3392

    "Anything which intoxicates in a large quantity, is prohibited even in a small quantity."
    Thus there is no excuse for a nip or a tot.
  3. Not only those who drink alcohol are cursed but also those who deal with them directly or indirectly are cursed by Allah.
    According to Sunan Ibn-I-Majah Volume 3, Book of Intoxicants, Chapter 30 Hadith No. 3380.
    It was reported by Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:
    "God’s curse falls on ten groups of people who deal with alcohol. The one who distills it, the one for whom it has been distilled, the one who drinks it, the one who transports it, the one to who it has been brought, the one whom serves it, the one who sells it, the one who utilizes money from it, the one who buys it and the one who buys it for someone else."

8.  


Diseases associated with alcoholism

There are several scientific reasons for the prohibition of consumption of intoxicants i.e. alcohol. The maximum number of deaths in the world related to any one particular cause is due to the consumption of alcohol. Millions of people die every year only because of intake of alcohol. I need not go into the details of all the ill-effects of alcohol since most of them are commonly known. Below is a simple list of few of the alcohol related illnesses:
  1. Cirrhosis of Liver is the most well known alcohol associated disease.
  2. Others are Cancer of Oesophagus, Cancer of Head and Neck, Cancer of Liver (Hepatoma), Cancer of Bowel, etc.
  3. Oesophagitis, Gastritis, Pancreatitis and Hepatitis are linked with alcohol consumption.
  4. Cardiomyopathy, Hypertension, Coronary Artherosclerosis, Angina and Heart Attacks are linked with heavy alcohol intakes.
  5. Strokes, Apoplexy, Fits and different types of Paralysis are linked with alcohol intake.
  6. Peripheral Neuropathy, Cortical Atrophy, Cerebellar Atrophy are well-known syndromes caused by alcohol consumption.
  7. Wernicke – Korsakoff syndrome with amnesia of recent events, confabulations and retainment of memory to old events with different types of paralysis are mainly due to thiamine deficiency due to excessive alcohol intake.
  8. Beriberi and other deficiencies are not uncommon among alcoholics. Even Pellagra occurs in alcoholics.
  9. Delerium Tremens is a serious complication that may occur during recurrent infection of alcoholics or post operatively. It also occurs during abstention as a sign of withdrawal effect. It is quite serious and may cause death even if treated in well equipped centres.
  10. Numerous Endocrine Disorders have been associated with alcoholism ranging from Myxodema to Hyperthyroidism and Florid Cushing Syndrome.
  11. Hematological ill effects are long and variable. Folic acid deficiency, however, is the most common manifestation of alcoholic abuse resulting in Macrocytic Anemia. Zeive’s syndrome is a triad of Hemolytic Anemia, Jaundice and Hyperlipaedemia that follows alcoholic binges.
  12. Thrombocytopenia and other platelet abnormalities are not rare in alcoholics.
  13. The commonly used tablet metronidazole (flagyl) interacts badly with alcohol.
  14. Recurrent infection is very common among chronic alcoholics. The resistance to disease and the immunological defense system are compromised by alcohol intake.
  15. Chest infections are notorious in alcoholics. Pneumonia, Lung Abcess, Emphysema and Pulmonary Tuberculosis are all common in alcoholics.
  16. During acute alcoholic intoxication, the drunk person usually vomits, the cough reflexes which are protective are paralysed. The vomitus thus easily pass to the lung causing Pneumonia or Lung Abscess. Occasionally it may even cause suffocation and death.
  17. The ill effects of alcohol consumption on women deserves special mention. Females are more vulnerable to alcohol-related Cirrhosis than men. During pregnancy alcohol consumption has a severe detrimental effect on the foetus. Foetal Alcohol Syndrome is being recognised more and more in the medical profession.
  18. Skin diseases are also related to alcohol indulgence.
  19. Eczema, Alopecia, Nail Dystrophy, Paronychia (infection around the nails) and Angular Stomatitis (inflammation of the angle of the mouth) are common diseases among alcoholics.

9.  


Alcoholism is a ‘disease’

Medical doctors have now turned liberal towards alcoholics and call alcoholism a disease rather than an addiction.
The Islamic Research Foundation has published a pamphlet that says:
If alcohol is a disease, it is the only disease that:
- Is sold in bottles
- Is advertised in newspapers, magazines, on radio and television
- Has licensed outlets to spread it
- Produces revenue for the government
- Brings violent deaths on the highways
- Destroys family life and increases crime
- Has no germs or viral cause
ALCOHOLISM IS NOT A DISEASE – IT IS SATAN’S HANDIWORK

Allah (swt) in His Infinite Wisdom has warned us against this snare of Satan. Islam is called the "Deen-ul-Fitrah" or the natural religion of Man. All its injunctions are aimed at preserving the natural state of man. Alcohol is a deviation from this natural state, for the individual as well as for society. It degrades man to a level below that of the beasts he claims to be superior to. Hence the consumption of alcohol is prohibited in Islam.

13.        EQUALITY OF WITNESSES

Question:
Why are two witnesses who are women, equivalent to only one witness who is a man ?

Answer:

It is not true that two female witnesses are always considered as equal to only one male witness. It is true only in certain cases. There are about five verses in the Qur’an that mention witnesses, without specifying male or female. There is only one verse in the Qur’an, that says two female witnesses are equal to one male witness. This verse is Surah Baqarah, chapter 2 verse 282. This is the longest verse in the Qur’an and deals with financial transactions. It says:
"Oh! ye who believe!
When ye deal with each other,
in transactions involving future obligation
in a fixed period of time
reduce them to writing and get two witnesses
out of your own men and if there are not two men,
then a man and two women, such as ye choose,
for witnesses so that if one of them errs
the other can remind her."
            [Al-Qur’an 2:282]
This verse of the Qur’an deals only with financial transactions. In such cases, it is advised to make an agreement in writing between the parties and take two witnesses, preferably both of which should be men only. In case you cannot find two men, then one man and two women would suffice.
For instance, suppose a person wants to undergo an operation for a particular ailment. To confirm the treatment, he would prefer taking references from two qualified surgeons. In case he is unable to find two surgeons, his second option would be one surgeon and two general practitioners who are plain MBBS doctors.
Similarly in financial transactions, two men are preferred. Islam expects men to be the breadwinners of their families. Since financial responsibility is shouldered by men, they are expected to be well versed in financial transactions as compared to women. As a second option, the witness can be one man and two women, so that if one of the women errs the other can remind her. The Arabic word used in the Qur’an is ‘Tazil’ which means ‘confused’ or ‘to err’. Many have wrongly translated this word as ‘to forget’. Thus financial transactions constitute the only case in which two female witnesses are equal to one male witness.
However, some scholars are of the opinion that the feminine attitude can also have an effect on the witness in a murder case. In such circumstances a woman is more terrified as compared to a man. Due to her emotional condition she can get confused. Therefore, according to some jurists, even in cases of murder, two female witnesses are equivalent to one male witness. In all other cases, one female witness is equivalent to one male witness. There are about five verses in the Qur’an which speak about witnesses without specifying man or woman.
While making a will of inheritance, two just persons are required as witnesses. In Surah Maidah chapter 5 verse 106, the Glorious Qur’an says:
"Oh you who believe!
When death approaches any of you,
(take) witnesses among yourself when making bequests."
                                  [Al-Qur’an 5:106]
two just persons of your own (brotherhood)
or other from outside if you are journeying
through the earth and the chance of death befalls you."
                                  [Al-Qur’an 65:2]
Two persons endued with justice in case of talaq.

"Four witnesses are required
in case of charge against chaste women,
                                  [Al-Qur’an 24:4]
There are some scholars who are of the opinion that the rule of two female witnesses equal to one male witness should be applied to all the cases. This cannot be agreed upon because one particular verse of the Qur’an from Surah Noor chapter 24, verse 6 clearly equates one female witness and one male witness:
"And those who launch a charge
against their spouses, and have (in support)
no evidence but their own -
their solitary evidence can be received."
                                [Al-Qur’an 24:6]
Hazrat Ayesha (RA) hadith narrated of one witness
Many jurists agree that even one witness of a woman is sufficient for the sighting of the crescent of the moon. Imagine one woman witness is sufficient for one of the pillars of Islam, i.e. fasting and the whole Muslim community of men and women agree and accept her witness! Some jurists say that one witness is required at the beginning of Ramadaan and two witnesses at the end of Ramadaan. It makes no difference whether the witnesses are men or women.
Some incidents require only female witness and that of a male cannot be accepted. For instance, in dealing with the problems of women, while giving the burial bath i.e. ‘ghusl’ to a woman, the witness has to be a woman.
The seeming inequality of male and female witnesses in financial transactions is not due to any inequality of the sexes in Islam. It is only due to the different natures and roles of men and women in society as envisaged by Islam.

14.        INHERITANCE
 
Question:

Under Islamic law, why is a woman’s share of the inherited wealth only half that of a man?

Answer:

The Glorious Qur’an contains specific and detailed guidance regarding the division of the inherited wealth, among the rightful beneficiaries.
The Qur’anic verses that contain guidance regarding inheritance are:
* Surah Baqarah, chapter 2 verse 180
* Surah Baqarah, chapter 2 verse 240
* Surah Nisa, chapter 4 verse 7-9
* Surah Nisa, chapter 4 verse 19
* Surah Nisa, chapter 4 verse 33 and
* Surah Maidah, chapter 5 verse 106-108
There are three verses in the Qur’an that broadly describe the share of close relatives i.e. Surah Nisah chapter 4 verses 11, 12 and 176. The translation of these verses are as follows:
"Allah (swt) (thus) directs you as regards your children’s (inheritance): to the male, a portion equal to that of two females, if only daughters, two or more, their share is two-thirds of the inheritance; If only one, her share is a half.
For parents, a sixth share of the inheritance to each, if the deceased left children; If no children, and the parents are the (only) heirs, the mother has a third; if the deceased left brothers (or sisters) the mother has a sixth. (The distribution in all cases is) after the payment of legacies and debts. Ye know not whether your parents or your children are nearest to you in benefit. These are settled portions ordained by Allah; and Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.
In what your wives leave, your share is half. If they leave no child; but if they leave a child, ye get a fourth; after payment of legacies and debts. In what ye leave, their share is a fourth, if ye leave no child; but if ye leave a child, they get an eight; after payment of legacies and debts. If the man or woman whose inheritance is in question, has left neither ascendants nor descendants, but has left a brother or a sister, each one of the two gets a sixth; but if more than two, they share in a third; after payment of legacies and debts; so that no loss is caused (to anyone). Thus it is ordained by Allah; and Allah is All-Knowing Most Forbearing"
                                  [Al-Qur’an 4:11-12]
"They ask thee for a legal decision. Say: Allah directs (them) about those who leave no descendants or ascendants as heirs. If it is a man that dies, leaving a sister but no child, she shall have half the inheritance. If (such a deceased was) a woman who left no child, Her brother takes her inheritance. If there are two sisters, they shall have two thirds of the inheritance (between them). If there are brothers and sisters, (they share), the male having twice the share of the female. Thus doth Allah (swt) makes clear to you (His knowledge of all things).
                                 [Al-Qur’an 4:176]
In most of the cases, a woman inherits half of what her male counterpart inherits. However, this is not always the case. In case the deceased has left no ascendant or descendent but has left the uterine brother and sister, each of the two inherit one sixth. If the deceased has left children, both the parents that is mother and father get an equal share and inherit one sixth each. In certain cases, a woman can also inherit a share that is double that of the male. If the deceased is a woman who has left no children, brothers or sisters and is survived only by her husband, mother and father, the husband inherits half the property while the mother inherits one third and the father the remaining one sixth. In this particular case, the mother inherits a share that is double that of the father. It is true that as a general rule, in most cases, the female inherits a share that is half that of the male. For instance in the following cases:
1. daughter inherits half of what the son inherits,
2. wife inherits 1/8th and husband 1/4th if the deceased has no children.
3. Wife inherits 1/4th and husband 1/2 if the deceased has children
4. If the deceased has no ascendant or descendent, the sister inherits a share that is half that of the brother.
In Islam a woman has no financial obligation and the economical responsibility lies on the shoulders of the man. Before a woman is married it is the duty of the father or brother to look after the lodging, boarding, clothing and other financial requirements of the woman. After she is married it is the duty of the husband or the son. Islam holds the man financially responsible for fulfilling the needs of his family. In order to do be able to fulfill the responsibility the men get double the share of the inheritance. For example, if a man dies leaving about Rs. One Hundred and Fifty Thousand, for the children (i.e one son and one daughter) the son inherits One Hundred Thousand rupees and the daughter only Fifty Thousand rupees. Out of the one hundred thousand which the son inherits, as his duty towards his family, he may have to spend on them almost the entire amount or say about eighty thousand and thus he has a small percentage of inheritance, say about twenty thousand, left for himself. On the other hand, the daughter, who inherits fifty thousand is not bound to spend a single penny on anybody. She can keep the entire amount for herself. Would you prefer inheriting one hundred thousand rupees and spending eighty thousand from it, or inheriting fifty thousand rupees and having the entire amount to yourself?

16.        HEREAFTER - LIFE AFTER DEATH

Question
How can you prove the existence of hereafter, i.e. life after death?
Answer

1.  

Belief in the hereafter is not based on blind faith?
Many people wonder as to how a person with a scientific and logical temperament, can lend any credence to the belief of life after death. People assume that anyone believing in the hereafter is doing so on the basis of blind belief.
My belief in the hereafter is based on a logical argument.

2.  


Hereafter a logical belief
There are more than a thousand verses in the Glorious Qur’an, containing scientific facts (refer my book "Qur’an and Modern Science-Compatible or Incompatible?"). Many facts mentioned in the Qur’an have been discovered in the last few centuries. But science has not advanced to a level where it can confirm every statement of the Qur’an.
Suppose 80% of all that is mentioned in the Qur’an has been proved 100% correct. About the remaining 20%, science makes no categorical statement, since it has not advanced to a level, where it can either prove or disprove these statements. With the limited knowledge that we have, we cannot say for sure whether even a single percentage or a single verse of the Qur’an from this 20% portion is wrong. Thus when 80% of the Qur’an is 100% correct and the remaining 20% is not disproved, logic says that even the 20% portion is correct. The existence of the hereafter, which is mentioned in the Qur’an, falls in the 20% ambiguous portion which my logic says is correct.

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Concept of peace and human values is useless without the concept of hereafter
Is robbing a good or an evil act? A normal balanced person would say it is evil. How would a person who does not believe in the hereafter convince a powerful and influential criminal that robbing is evil?
Suppose I am the most powerful and influential criminal in the world. At the same time I am an Intelligent and a logical person. I say that robbing is good because it helps me lead a luxurious life. Thus robbing is good for me.
If anybody can put forward a single logical argument as to why it is evil for me, I will stop immediately. People usually put forward the following arguments:

   a.    The person who is robbed will face difficulties

Some may say that the person who is robbed will face difficulties. I certainly agree that it is bad for the person who is robbed. But it is good for me. If I rob a thousand dollars, I can enjoy a good meal at a 5 star restaurant.

   b.    Someone may rob you

Some people argue that someday I may be robbed. No one can rob me because I am a very powerful criminal and I have hundreds of bodyguards. I can rob anybody but nobody can rob me. Robbing may be a risky profession for a common man but not for an influential person like me.

   c.    The police may arrest you

Some may say, if you rob, you can be arrested by the police. The police cannot arrest me because I have the police on my payroll. I have the ministers on my payroll. I agree that if a common man robs, he will be arrested and it will be bad for him, but I am an extraordinarily influential and powerful criminal.
Give me one logical reason why it is bad for me and I will stop robbing.

   d.    Its easy money

Some may say its easy money and not hard-earned money. I agree completely that it is easy money, and that is one of the main reasons why I rob. If a person has the option of earning money the easy as well as the hard way, any logical person would choose the easy way.

   e.    It is against humanity

Some may say it is against humanity and that a person should care for other human beings. I counter argue by asking as to who wrote this law called ‘humanity’ and why should I follow it?
This law may be good for the emotional and sentimental people but I am a logical person and I see no benefit in caring for other human beings.

   f.     It is a selfish act

Some may say that robbing is being selfish. It is true that robbing is a selfish act; but then why should I not be selfish? It helps me enjoy life.
 

1.    No logical reason for robbing being an evil act


Hence all arguments that attempt to prove that robbing is an evil act are futile. These arguments may satisfy a common man but not a powerful and influential criminal like me. None of the arguments can be defended on the strength of reason and logic. It is no surprise that there are so many criminals in this world.
Similarly raping, cheating etc. can be justified as good for a person like me and there is no logical argument that can convince me that these things are bad.
 

2.    A Muslim can convince a powerful and influential criminal

Now let us switch sides. Suppose you are the most powerful and influential criminal in the world, who has the police and the ministers on his payroll. You have army of thugs to protect you. I am a Muslim who will convince you that robbing, raping, cheating, etc. are evil acts.
Even if I put forth the same arguments to prove that robbing is evil the criminal will respond the same way as he did earlier.
I agree that the criminal is being logical and all his arguments are true only when he is the most powerful and influential criminal.
 

3.     Every human being wants justice
Each and every human being desires justice. Even if he does not want justice for others he wants justice for himself. Some people are intoxicated by power and influence and inflict pain and suffering on others. The same people, however, would surely object if some injustice was done to them. The reason such people become insensitive to the suffering of others is that they worship power and influence. Power and influence, they feel, not only allows them to inflict injustice on others but also prevents others from doing likewise to them.
 
4. God is Most Powerful and Just
As a Muslim I would convince the criminal about the existence of Almighty God (refer to answer proving the existence of God). This God is more powerful than you and at the same time is also just. The Glorious Qur’an says:
"Allah is never unjust
In the least degree"
        [Al-Qur’an 4:40]
 
5.     Why does God not punish me?
The criminal, being a logical and scientific person, agrees that God exists, after being presented with scientific facts from the Qur’an. He may argue as to why God, if He is Powerful and Just, does not punish him.
 
6. The people who do injustice should be punished
Every person who has suffered injustice, irrespective of financial or social status, almost certainly wants the perpetrator of injustice to be punished. Every normal person would like the robber or the rapist to be taught a lesson. Though a large number of criminals are punished, many even go scot-free. They lead a pleasant, luxurious life, and even enjoy a peaceful existence. If injustice is done to a powerful and influential person, by someone more powerful and more influential than he, even such a person would want that person perpetrators of injustice to be punished.
 
7. This life is a test for the hereafter
This life is a test for the hereafter. The Glorious Qur’an says:
"He who created Death
And life that He
May try which of you
Is best in deed;
And He is the Exalted
In Might, Oft-Forgiving"
          [Al-Qur’an 67:2]
 
8. Final justice on day of judgement
The Glorious Qur’an says:
"Every soul shall have
A taste of death:
And only on the Day
Of Judgement shall you
Be paid your full recompense.
Only he who is saved
Far from the Fire
And admitted to the Garden
Will have attained
The object (of life):
For the life of this world
Is but goods and chattels
Of deception."
          [Al-Qur’an 3:185]
Final justice will be meted out on the Day of Judgement. After a person dies, he will be resurrected on the Day of Judgement along with the rest of mankind. It is possible that a person receives part of his punishment in this world. The final reward and punishment will only be in the hereafter. God Almighty may not punish a robber or a rapist in this world but he will surely be held accountable on the Day of Judgement and will be punished in the hereafter i.e. life after death.
 
9. What punishment can the human law give Hitler?
Hitler incinerated six million Jews during his reign of terror. Even if the police had arrested him, what punishment can the human law give Hitler for justice to prevail? The most they can do is to send Hitler to the gas chamber. But that will only be punishment for the killing of one Jew. What about the remaining five million, nine hundred and ninety nine thousand, nine hundred and ninety-nine Jews?
 
10. Allah can burn Hitler more than six million times in hellfire
Allah say in the Glorious Qur’an:
"Those who reject
Our signs, We shall soon
Cast into the Fire;
As often as their skins
Are roasted through,
We shall change them
For fresh skins,
That they may taste
The penalty: for Allah
Is Exalted in Power, Wise"
          [Al-Qur’an 4:56]
If Allah wishes he can incinerate Hitler six million times in the hereafter in the hellfire.
 
11. No concept of human values or good and bad without concept of hereafter
It is clear that without convincing a person about the hereafter, i.e. life after death, the concept of human values and the good or evil nature of acts is impossible to prove to any person who is doing injustice especially when he is influential and powerful.

17.       WHY ARE MUSLIMS DIVIDED INTO SECTS / DIFFERENT SCHOOLS OF THOUGHT?

Question:
When all the Muslim follow one and the same Qur’an then why are there so many sects and different schools of thoughts among Muslims?

Answer:

1.  


Muslims Should be United
It is a fact that Muslims today, are divided amongst themselves. The tragedy is that such divisions are not endorsed by Islam at all. Islam believes in fostering unity amongst its followers.
The Glorious Qur’an says:
"And hold fast,
All together, by the rope
Which Allah (stretches out for you),
and be not divided among yourselves;"
                [Al-Qur’an 3:103]
Which is the rope of Allah that is being referred to in this verse? It is the Glorious Qur’an. The Glorious Qur’an is the rope of Allah which all Muslims should hold fast together. There is double emphasis in this verse. Besides saying ‘hold fast all together’ it also says, ‘be not divided’.
Qur’an further says,
"Obey Allah, and obey the Messenger"
                [Al-Qur’an 4:59]
All the Muslim should follow the Qur’an and authentic Ahadith and be not divided among themselves.

2.  


It is Prohibited to make sects and divisions in Islam

The Glorious Qur’an says:

"As for those who divide
Their religion and break up
Into sects, thou hast
No part in them in the least:
Their affair is with Allah:
He will in the end
Tell them the truth
Of all that they did."
           [Al-Qur’an 6:159]
In this verse Allah (swt) says that one should disassociate oneself from those who divide their religion and break it up into sects.
But when one asks a Muslim, "who are you?", the common answer is either ‘I am a Sunni, or ‘I am a Shia’. Some call themselves Hanafi, or Shafi or Maliki or Humbali. Some say ‘I am a Deobandi’, while some others say ‘I am a Barelvi’.

3.  


Our Prophet was a Muslim
One may ask such Muslims, "Who was our beloved prophet (pbuh)? Was he a Hanafi or a Shafi, or a Humbali or a Maliki?" No! He was a Muslim, like all the other prophets and messengers of Allah before him.
It is mentioned in chapter 3 verse 52 of Al-Qur’an that Jesus (pbuh) was a Muslim.
Further, in chapter 3 verse 67, Al-Qur’an says that Ibrahim (pbuh) was not a Jew or a Christian but was a Muslim.

4.  


Qur’an says call yourselves Muslim
  1. If anyone poses a Muslim the question who are you, he should say "I am a MUSLIM, not a Hanafi or a Shafi". Surah Fussilat chapter 41 verse 33 says
    "Who is better in speech
    Than one who calls (men)
    To Allah, works righteousness,
    And says, ‘I am of those
    Who bow in Islam (Muslim)?’ "
                   [Al-Qur’an 41:33]

    The Qur’an says "Say I am of those who bow in Islam". In other words, say, "I am a Muslim".
  2. The Prophet (pbuh) dictated letters to non-Muslim kings and rulers inviting them to accept Islam. In these letters he mentioned the verse of the Qur’an from Surah Ali Imran chapter 3 verse 64:
    Say ye: "Bear witness
    That we (at least)
    Are Muslims (bowing
    To Allah’s Will)."
                    [Al-Qur’an 3:64]

5.  

Respect all the Great Scholars of Islam
We must respect all the great scholars of Islam, including the four Imaams, Imam Abu Hanifa, Imam Shafi, Imam Humbal and Imam Malik (may Allah be pleased with them all). They were great scholars and may Allah reward them for their research and hardwork. One can have no objection if someone agrees with the views and research of Imam Abu Hanifa or Imam Shafi, etc. But when posed a question, ‘who are you?’, the reply should only be ‘I am a Muslim’.

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Some may argue by quoting the hadith of our beloved Prophet from Sunan Abu Dawood Hadith No. 4579. In this hadith the prophet (pbuh) is reported to have said, "My community will be split up into seventy-three sects."
This hadith reports that the prophet predicted the emergence of seventy-three sects. He did not say that Muslims should be active in dividing themselves into sects. The Glorious Qur’an commands us not to create sects. Those who follow the teachings of the Qur’an and Sahih Hadith, and do not create sects are the people who are on the true path.
According to Tirmidhi Hadith No. 171, the prophet (pbuh) is reported to have said, "My Ummah will be fragmented into seventy-three sects, and all of them will be in Hell fire except one sect." The companions asked Allah’s messenger which group that would be. Where upon he replied, "It is the one to which I and my companions belong."
The Glorious Qur’an mentions in several verses, "Obey Allah and obey His Messenger". A true Muslim should only follow the Glorious Qur’an and the Sahih Hadith. He can agree with the views of any scholar as long as they conform to the teachings of the Qur’an and Sahih Hadith. If such views go against the Word of Allah, or the Sunnah of His Prophet, then they carry no weight, regardless of how learned the scholar might be.
If only all Muslims read the Qur’an with understanding and adhere to Sahih Hadith, Inshallah most of these differences would be solved and we could be one united Muslim Ummah

18.        ALL RELIGIONS TEACH MEN TO BE RIGHTEOUS, THEN WHY FOLLOW ONLY ISLAM?


Question

All religions basically teach followers to do good deeds. Why should a person only follow Islam? Can he not follow any of the religions?

Answer

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Major difference between Islam and most other religions
All religions basically exhort mankind to be righteous and eschew evil. But Islam goes beyond that. It guides us towards practical ways of achieving righteousness and eliminating evil from our individual and collective lives. Islam takes into account human nature and the complexities of human society. Islam is guidance from the Creator Himself. Therefore, Islam is also called the Deen-ul-Fitrah (the natural religion of Man).

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Example - Islam commands us to shun robbery and also prescribes method of eleminating robbery
  1. Islam prescribes method of eliminating robbery
    All major religions teach that theft is an evil act. Islam teaches the same. So what is the difference between Islam and the other religions? The difference lies in the fact that Islam, besides teaching that robbing is evil, shows a practical way of creating a social structure in which people will not rob.
  2. Islam prescribes Zakaat
    Islam prescribes a system of Zakaat (obligatory annual charity). Islamic law prescribes that every person who has a saving that exceeds the nisaab level i.e. more than 85 grams of gold, should give 2.5% of that saving every lunar year in charity. If every rich person in the world gave Zakaat sincerely, poverty will be eradicated from this world. Not a single human being would die of hunger.
  3. Chopping off the hands as punishment for robbery
    Islam prescribes chopping off the hands of the convicted robber. The Glorious Qur’an says in Surah Maidah:
    "As to the thief, male or female, cut off his or her hands:a punishment by way
    of example, from Allah, for their crime: and Allah is Exalted in power, full of wisdom."
                              [ Al-Qur’an 5:38]
    The non-Muslim may say, "Chopping off the hands in this 20th century. Islam is a barbaric and ruthless religion!"
  4. Results achieved when Islamic Shariah Implemented
     
  5. America is supposed to be one of the most advanced countries in the world. Unfortunately it also has one of the highest rates of crime, theft, and robbery. Suppose the Islamic shariah is implemented in America i.e. every rich person gives Zakaat ( 2.5% of his savings in charity above 85 grams of gold every lunar year), and every convicted robber has his or her hands chopped off as a punishment. Will the rate of theft and robbery in America increase, remain same or decrease? Naturally it will decrease. Moreover the existence of such a stringent law would discourage many a potential robber.
    I agree that the amount of theft that takes place in the world today is so tremendous that if you chop off the hands of all the thieves, there will be tens of thousands of people whose hands will be chopped off. The point here is that the moment you implement this law the rate of theft will decline immediately. The potential robber would give it a serious thought before jeopardizing his limbs. The mere thought of the punishment itself will discourage majority of the robbers. There will barely be a few who would rob. Hence only a few person’s hands would be chopped off but millions would live peacefully without fear of being robbed.
    Islamic Shariah is therefore practical, and achieves results.

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Example: Islam prohibits the molestation and rape of women. It enjoins hijaab and prescribes capital punishment for a convicted rapist.
  1. Islam prescribes method of eliminating molestation and rape
    All the major religions declare the molestation and rape of women as grave sins. Islam teaches the same. What then is the difference between Islam and the other religions? The difference lies in the fact that Islam does not merely preach respect for women, or abhor molestation and rape as serious crimes, but also gives clear guidance as to how society can eliminate such crimes.
     
  2. Hijaab for men
    Islam has a system of hijaab. The Glorious Qur’an first mentions hijaab for the men and then for the women. Hijaab for the men is mentioned in the following verse:
    "Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."
                            [Al-Qur’an 24:30]
    The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze.
  3. Hijaab for women
    Hijaab for women is mentioned in the following verse:
    "And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons...."
                              [Al-Qur’an 24:31]
    The extent of hijaab for a woman is that her complete body should be covered. The only part that can be seen, are the face and the hands up to the wrists. If they wish to cover, they can even cover these parts of the body. However some Islamic scholars insist that even the face should be covered.
  4. Hijaab prevents molestation
    The reason why Allah has prescribed Hijaab for the women is given in the Qur’an in the folowing verse of Surah Al-Ahzab:
    "O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women,that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, most Merciful."
                               [Al-Qur’an 33:59]
    The Qur’an says that Hijaab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women this would prevent them from being molested.
  5. Example of twin sisters
    Suppose two sisters who are twins and who are equally beautiful, walk down a street. One of them is wearing the Islamic Hijaab i.e. the complete body is covered except for the face and the hands up to the wrists, and the other twin is wearing a mini skirt or shorts. Around the corner there is a hooligan who is waiting for an opportunity to tease a girl. Who will he tease? The girl wearing the Islamic Hijaab or the girl wearing the mini skirt or shorts? Dresses that expose more than they conceal, are an indirect temptation to the opposite sex for teasing, molestation and rape. The Qur’an rightly says that the hijaab prevents women from being molested.
     
  6. Capital punishment for rapist
    The Islamic shariah prescribes capital punishment for a convicted rapist. The non-Muslim may be horrified at such a stringent punishment in this age. Many accuse Islam of being ruthless and barbaric. I have asked a common question to hundreds of non-Muslim men. Suppose God-forbid, some one rapes your wife, your mother or your sister and you are made the judge. The rapist is brought in front of you. What punishment would you give him? All of them said, "we would put him to death." Some went to the extent of saying, "we would torture him to death", If your wife or your mother is raped you want the rapist to be put to death. But if someone else’s wife or mother is raped, capital punishment is a barbaric law. Why the double standards?
     
  7. U.S.A. has one of the highest rate of Rape
    The United States of America is supposed to be one of the most advanced countries of the world. An F.B.I report in the year 1990 says that 1,02,555 cases of rape were reported. It further says that only 16% of the cases of rapes are reported. Thus, in order to know the actual number of rapes that took place in 1990, the reported figure should be multiplied by 6.25. We get a total of 6,40,968 rape cases that took place in the year 1990. If the total is divided by 365 the number of days in a year, we get an average of 1,756 rape incidents everyday.
    Later another report said that an average of 1900 cases of rape are committed in U.S.A every day. According to National Crime Victimization Survey Bureau of Justice Statistics (U. S. Dept. of Justice) in 1996 alone 3,07,000 cases of rape were reported. Only 31% of the actual cases of rape were reported. Thus, 3,07,000 X 3.226 = 9,90,322 rapes took place in 1996. That is, an average of 2,713 cases of rape took place everyday in America in 1996. Every 32 seconds one rape is taking place in America. Maybe American rapists got bolder. The FBI report of 1990 continues and says that out of the rape cases that were reported only 10% of the rapist were arrested, that is only 1.6% of the actual rapes committed. Out of those arrested, 50% were let free before the trial. This would mean that only 0.8% of the rapists faced a trial. In other words if a person commits 125 rapes the chances that he will get a punishment for rape is only once. Many would consider this a good gamble. And the report says that of those people who faced trial 50% received sentences of less than a year’s imprisonment though the American law says rape carries a seven year sentence of imprisonment. For a rapist, the judge is lenient to first time offenders. Imagine a person commits 125 rapes and the chances of being convicted is only once, and 50% of the time the judge will grant leniency and give a sentence of less than a year!
  8. Results achieved when Islamic Shariah Implemented
    Suppose the Islamic shariah is implemented in America. Whenever a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he lowers his gaze. Every woman wears the Islamic Hijaab, that is the complete body is covered except the face and the hands upto the wrists. After this if any man commits rape, he gets capital punishment. The question is, will the rate of rape in America increase, will it remain the same or will it decrease? Naturally it will decrease. Islamic Shariah gets results.

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Islam has Practical Solutions for the Problems of Mankind
Islam is the best way of life because its teachings are not doctrinaire rhetoric but practical solutions for the problems of mankind. Islam achieves results both at the individual and collective levels. Islam is the best way of life because it is a practical, universal religion not confined to any ethnic group or nationality.

19.        VAST DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ISLAM AND THE ACTUAL PRACTICE OF MUSLIMS


Question:

If Islam is the best religion, why are many of the Muslims dishonest, unreliable, and involved in activities such as cheating, bribing, dealing in drugs, etc.?

Answer:

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Media maligns Islam
  1. Islam is without doubt the best religion but the media is in the hands of the westerners who are afraid of Islam. The media is continuously broadcasting and printing information against Islam. They either provide misinformation about Islam, misquote Islam or project a point out of proportion, if any.
     
  2. When any bomb blasts take place anywhere, the first people to be accused without proof are invariably the Muslims. This appears as headlines in the news. Later, when they find that non-Muslims were responsible, it appears as an insignificant news’ item.
     
  3. If a 50 year old Muslim marries a 15 year old girl after taking her permission, it appears on the front page but when a 50 year old non-Muslim rapes a 6 year old girl, it may appear in the news in the inside pages as ‘Newsbriefs’. Everyday in America on an average 2,713 cases of rape take place but it doesn’t appear in the news, since it has become a way of life for the Americans.

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Black sheep in every community:
I am aware that there are some Muslims who are dishonest, unreliable, who cheat, etc. but the media projects this as though only Muslims are involved in such activities. There are black sheep in every community. I know Muslims who are alcoholics and who can drink most of the non-Muslims under the table.

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Muslims best as a whole:
Inspite of all the black sheep in the Muslim community, Muslims taken on the whole, yet form the best community in the world. We are the biggest community of tee-totallers as a whole, i.e. those who don’t imbibe alcohol. Collectively, we are a community which gives the maximum charity in the world. There is not a single person in the world who can even show a candle to the Muslims where modesty is concerned; where sobriety is concerned; where human values and ethics are concerned.

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Don’t judge a car by its driver:
If you want to judge how good is the latest model of the "Mercedes" car and a person who does not know how to drive sits at the steering wheel and bangs up the car, who will you blame? The car or the driver? But naturally, the driver. To analyze how good the car is, a person should not look at the driver but see the ability and features of the car. How fast is it, what is its average fuel consumption, what are the safety measures, etc. Even if I agree for the sake of argument that the Muslims are bad, we can’t judge Islam by its followers? If you want to judge how good Islam is then judge it according to its authentic sources, i.e. the Glorious Qur’an and the Sahih Hadith.

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Judge Islam by its best follower i.e. Prophet Mohammed (pbuh):
If you practically want to check how good a car is put an expert driver behind the steering wheel. Similarly the best and the most exemplary follower of Islam by whom you can check how good Islam is, is the last and final messenger of God, Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Besides Muslims, there are several honest and unbiased non-Muslim historians who have acclaimed that prophet Muhammad was the best human being. According to Michael H. Hart who wrote the book, ‘The Hundred Most Influential Men in History’, the topmost position, i.e. the number one position goes to the beloved prophet of Islam, Muhammad (pbuh). There are several such examples of non-Muslims paying great tributes to the prophet, like Thomas Carlyle, La-Martine, etc.

20.    NON-MUSLIMS REFERRED AS ‘KAFIRS

Question:
Why do Muslims abuse non-Muslims by calling them ‘Kafirs’?
Answer:

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Kafir’ means one who rejects.
Kafir’ is derived from the word ‘kufr’, which means to conceal or to reject. In Islamic terminology, ‘Kafir’ means one who conceals or rejects the truth of Islam and a person who rejects Islam is in English called a ‘non-Muslim’.

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If non-Muslims are hurt - they should accept Islam.
If any non-Muslim considers the word ‘Kafir’ i.e. ‘non-Muslim’ as an abuse, he may choose to accept Islam and then we will stop referring to him as or call him a kafir i.e. a non-Muslim.

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